We’ve all been there. That horrible feeling in the pit of your stomach where you start to believe that you boyfriend may be cheating on you. But how do you know if you’re just being paranoid? Here’s a few signs to tell if your boyfriend is cheating on you….
He Hides His Phone
If you boyfriend receives calls to his mobile phone but he leaves the room to talk, or doesn’t let you use his phone anymore, it may be that he’s either cheating on you or has another girl on the side. However, it may also be out that he’s just organising a surprise party for you so try not to worry too much.
Sex Has Stopped
If your boyfriend has decided that he’s too tired, sick or just not up for sex anymore it’s because he’s probably either thinking about someone else or that he is too exhausted from having sex with another person. Red flag this one.
He Cancels Arrangements
If you have plans with your boyfriend to go out to dinner, see a movie or meet for drinks with mates – and your boyfriend suddenly can’t make it or a meeting at work runs over time – it might be that he is cheating on you. This may not always be the case but if it begins to happen on a regular basis start to become a little concerned about his behaviour.
He’s Changed His Password
If you are in a laid-back relationship where it’s ok for each other to share email account access or log into the same Facebook page; and your boyfriend has suddenly changed his password, it may be a sign that he is hiding something – or someone. It’s perfectly normal to be security conscious and change passwords frequently, but if he doesn’t share this information with you, it’s a little suspicious.
He’s Changed His Appearance
If your boyfriend starts wearing cologne, buys new clothes or just showers a lot more – this could be an indication that he’s trying to impress someone else. It may just be that he’s going for a payrise at work or perhaps someone has harshly told him that he looks terrible so he’s trying to up his game. Whatever it is, just take a few mental notes.
He Hides His Bank Statements
If your boyfriend no longer lets you see his bank statements, or has unexplained items on his credit card, this could be a clear indication that your boyfriend has ‘a bit on the side’. Try not to over react however, as they may all be work related expenses where he can claim back on them later.
He Forgets Important Dates
If you boyfriend forgets your birthday, your anniversary or Valentines Day this may be a sign that he isn’t into you and that he’s more into someone else. Of course if your boyfriend is just really lazy or has the world’s worst memory then that’s just the way he is and he’ll forget his head if it wasn’t screwed on.
At the end of the day, if you suspect that your boyfriend is cheating remember that communication is key. Guys aren’t the best sometimes at tuning into emotions and they don’t realise that they are being slack. Talk to your boyfriend. Discuss your feelings and how his behaviour is worrying you. It may just be that your boyfriend is incredibly busy at work, is stressed out, facing family commitments….or is just being a bloke.How To Tell if Your Boyfriend is Cheating on You,